Best for First Date in London

Discover the best places for a first date in London with our hand-picked guide. As if first dates weren't stressful enough! The last thing you want to do is end up spoiling that big day by going to the wrong places at the wrong times. Whether you're looking for a snug speakeasy or something a bit different to get the conversation flowing, we've got it covered. 

Last updated on 7th November 2019

Candlelight Concerts

15 user reviews 4

One for the more culturally-minded first daters, join the talented London Musical Arts Orchestra and talented director John Landor at St Martin-in-the-Fields as they bring to life Vivaldi and Mozart like never before, in a beautiful setting lit by stunning candlelight. 

68 and Boston

941 user reviews 4

This regal nook is a must-try for anyone looking for a place to impress. 68 and Boston is an intimate Soho bar with a basement space dedicated to specialist wines and discerning labels with a decadent cocktail bar stashed upstairs. Enjoy the best of expert mixology, beautiful wines and an ambience fit for bit of a swoon.

Drink Shop & Do

625 user reviews 4

Whether you like to kick off a first date with a quirky activity for the two of you, or get to know each other over a couple of drinks, King's Cross' Drink, Shop & Do can sort you for literally every preference. Cocktails? They got 'em. Cakes? They make 'em. A night of Porno Dot-To-Dot doing? They're a former sex shop, it would be rude if they didn't.

Stylish, relaxed and bursting with excellent bottles of wine, this unique bar brand is a top spot for making that first date a good one. With venues across South West and Central London, you're sure to find one that makes the perfect meeting spot, while their collection of around 100 wines are sure to impress even the most discerning drinker.

Puttshack White City

2729 user reviews 4

Crazy golf has always been a date night classic, but Puttshack are doing things a little differently. One of the city's most high-tech golfing experiences, this Shepherd's Bush hotspot is keeping arguments to a minimum with interactive and detailed scoring - so let's just hope neither you or your date is a sore loser.

So you're into the finer things in life, and so what? Show your date what you're about with a trip to one of Steak & Lobster's beautiful London venues. Treat them to a taste of the high life with classic cocktails ready for the sipping, and a plate of juicy lobster and meaty steak.

WM Barker & Co

120 user reviews 4

Blink and you might miss it, but this secret little bar beneath Bishopsgate is well worth the hunt. The barebrick walls, low lighting and wooden finish give the bar an intimate feeling. Try one of their beautifully crafted cocktails and get a bite to eat from the kitchen - the toasties are a real treat.

Map Maison

62 user reviews 5

Fizz & Nibbles - Only £15 - was £25 and 1 other offer

A very slinky spot down on Kingsland Road, MAP Maison is the perfect choice if you've got a date with a cocktail lover. Home to some of the area's slickest concoctions, the expert bartenders are on hand to whip up almost anything your heart desires, including a selection of speciality Japanese cocktails made with spirits from their extensive bottle list.

Bounce, Old Street

909 user reviews 5

Ping Pong and Packages and 2 other offers

Bounce's buzzing atmosphere and playful nature will quickly get rid of any first date nerves. Found just a little walk away from Old Street in the heart of Shoreditch, bond over a few games of ping-pong (remembering it's just a game throughout) then chat over delicious Italian cuisine and cocktails afterwards.

The Arches

11 user reviews 5

2-4-1 Cocktails and 1 other offer

Local favourite The Arches is an excellent choice for a first date, catering to whatever your needs may be. Whether you're catching a cup of coffee, kicking back with a beer and some vintage consoles or fancy reclining in a beer garden, this is your place to impress that special someone. 


2456 user reviews 4

London is blessed with plenty of fantastic speakeasy-styled cocktail bars, and many would have Nightjar down as the very best in town. An elusive spot where discerning drinkers gather to enjoy spectacular prohibition-themed cocktails and a soothing programme of live jazz tunes, it goes without saying that a table for two here would knock the socks off that person you've always had a thing for.

JanUary 2 for £20

Keep that first meet-up cool and casual with a few drinks at King's Cross's Drake and Morgan. With a pretty alfresco terrace for soaking up some spring and summer sunshine, it's the perfect place to split a bottle of wine or sink some tasty cocktails until late into the evening.

Callooh Callay

650 user reviews 4

White Rabbit Package

Slick, sexy and a little bit secretive, Callooh Callay is renowned for its date night credentials. With a menu of signature concoctions, the drinks alone should add a little extra spark to conversation, but if you're really looking to impress, show your date their even more secret members bar, JubJub.


1698 user reviews 5

A sumptuous space of warmth, mystery and magic, Oriole leaves the stressful streets of London behind in favour of a glorious, disconnected outside world. Settle in for drinks with an exotic influence, made using ingredients and flavours from all corners of the globe. There's grazing plates if you're peckish, and live entertainment comes in the form of live jazz, swing and blues music throughout the week.

You and your date should head over to Artillery Lane where, hidden behind a fridge in The Breakfast Club, you'll find a quirky speakeasy fronting some seriously bold cocktails. Packed full of vintage furniture and tasty bar snacks, it's the ultimate icebreaker for any first date.

The Racketeer

254 user reviews 5

Valentines 20% off any sparkling wine

The Racketeer has a long history of mischief, and it's that kind of character that'll keep the sparks flying on a first date. Relaxed, welcoming and boasting its own secret garden, this charming Essex Road pub is the type of spot you stop in for a fwe pints and end up staying until closing time. 

Humble Grape is a truly charming little hangout that's sure to make your sweetheart swoon. Head down into multi-level, industrial-inspired hangouts and snuggle up on a pew together. Spend your evening chatting, laughing and flirting as you sip on some premium vino in this charismatic cavern.

The Jones Family Project

29 user reviews 4

With a stunning interior and a wonderful a la carte menu, The Jones Family Project in Shoreditch is a great place to take your leading lad or lady on a first date. Sit down over some prime rib, sip your glorious cocktails, and get to know each other. You'll have plenty of time, as you'll never want the night to end.

Jars Bar

4 user reviews 5

2 ZOMBIE COCKTAILS FOR £12 and 1 other offer

If you're looking for a date night spot in east London, look no further than quirky Deptford Market Yard Spot, Jars Bar. Come here to spend your evening sipping on delicious hand-crafted concoctions, or if you're after something a little more hands-on, give one of their gin distilling or cocktail making masterclasses a go. 

Impress your date with an evening full of cabaret, jazz and burlesque accompanied by an exquisite British dishes and delicious cocktail concoctions. The 1920's themed bar provides an entertainment experience like no other and an evening oozing with glamour. With various shows on offer, choose the one that suits you the most and enjoy the amazing atmosphere - it's sure to get you a second date.

Long Bar Sanderson Hotel

11 user reviews 4

The world famous Long Bar in London is ready to welcome you into their expert cocktail making arms for an unforgettable first date in London. Sit at the 80 foot long bar and work your way through the delicious cocktails and admire the unique art work scattered around to get the laughter going. For more intimate conversation escape to the Courtyard, where candles will light up your date.

Basement Sate

306 user reviews 4

The Parisian chic of this luxurious Soho bar is certainly fit for impressing on a first date. Discover the indulgent dessert bar, Basement Sate and together you can reach a sweet Nirvana, lined with silky cocktails and handmade patisserie specials that are quite literally a piece of melt-in-the-mouth deliciousness. 

Little Bat

243 user reviews 5

Perched just off the main Islington strip, Little Bat is a cosy and comfortable neighbourhood bar that's brought to us by the cocktail whizzes behind the award-winning Callooh Callay. With banging drinks, charming vibes, plenty of quirks by candlelight and friendly service, Little Bat is an absolute must try date night venue in Angel.

HAPPY HOUR 2 4 £12 Cocktails 16:30-19:00 and 2 other offers

This NYC-styled basement bar is cool and quirky, with an intimate feel that's neither stuffy nor formal. There's an unmistakable party spirit to the LCC that comes out to play no matter what time of the week you're visiting, and the cocktails are spot on. Perfect for impressing a date that doesn't take themselves too seriously.

The Escapologist

1724 user reviews 4

Based upon the HQ of the secret society that ran Victorian London, The Escapologist is a beautifully designed basement bar pegged as 'part modern-day Victorian men's club and part Masonic Lodge'. Ideal for a relaxed first date, this vintage-themed bar serves a fun yet refined list of cocktails and cheese-drenched pizzas in the heart of Covent Garden.

Imagine rocking up to a first date and whisking your love interest 180 metres into the sky for cocktails atop one of London's most famous skyscrapers. We can make this happen. Normally reserved for private members only, we've had a word with the guys at Searcy's and secured exclusive access to the top of the glass dome for DesignMyNight users.