Best First Date Spots In London

Calling all love-birds. As if first dates weren't stressful enough, the last thing you want to do is end up spoiling that big day by going to the wrong place at the wrong time. Whether you're looking for a snug speakeasy or something a bit different to get the conversation flowing, use this list as inspo for the best first date ideas in London.

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Last updated on 21st January 2026




Portobello Ristorante Pizzeria

Found in Notting Hill, an area of London made famous across the world because of the rom-com of the same name, Portobello Ristorante Pizzeria is equal parts romantic and relaxed - ideal for that first date. Think an intimate space made cosy with an authentic trattoria feel, as well as a gorgeous sun-trap of a terrace for any warmer months.

Tuck into perfectly blistered, wood-fired pizza alongside traditionally cooked meat and fish dishes, like wood oven-roasted monkfish wrapped in pancetta and charcoal-grilled sirloin steak.

Vagabond - Various Sites

Stylish, relaxed and bursting with excellent bottles of wine, Vagabond is a top spot for making that first date a good one. With venues sprinkled across South West and Central London, you're sure to find one that makes the perfect meeting spot for grabbing Italian and Spanish small plates.

Gravity MAX Westfield Stratford City

Looking for the perfect spot for a first date? Gravity Max at Westfield Stratford City and in Wandsworth offers a fun and unique atmosphere that's perfect for breaking the ice. With exciting activities like bowling, mini-golf, and arcade games, it's a great way to get to know each other while having a blast.

Whether you're competing in a friendly game of pool or enjoying a delicious cocktail at the bar, there's plenty to keep the conversation flowing and the energy high. 

The Big Bakes

Fancy finding out whether your date is a top-notch chef in the making? Then be sure to check out The Big Bakes at various London locations for some non-stop fun. Not only will you have 90 minutes to whip up something tasty, but someone will also be crowned the winner. 

The Hayden Pub & Rooms

A cosy pub that's great for getting to know someone, The Hayden Pub & Rooms can be found in Notting Hill. Relax on one of their comfy leather sofas together, sipping an expertly crafted cocktails while watching the world go by out of their large windows.

Their drinks are made with premium spirits and fresh ingredients, and the food menu doesn't disappoint either. Think mezze boards, fish tacos and Buffalo chicken bites to start, followed by hearty burgers, slow-cooked BBQ pork ribs or a goat's cheese and red onion tart.

Found

A go-to for a first date in London, Found is hidden away down Ravey Street. Just look for the unobtrusive door and head inside to a swanky speakeasy. Although it may be a bit cramped, the beautiful interiors and delicious cocktails make it well worth a visit.

BÓHA London

Looking for the perfect spot for a romantic date night? Look no further than BÓHA London, where intimate ambience meets exquisite cocktails. From the moment you step inside, you'll be enveloped in a warm and stylish atmosphere, perfect for a cosy evening with that special someone.

Whether you're sipping on expertly crafted cocktails in the 1920s-style speakeasy, or sharing a delightful small plate, this restaurant and bar offers an intimate, chic setting that invites conversation and connection. The dimmed lights, sophisticated decor, and attentive service make this the ideal place to make your date night truly memorable.

135 Bar & Lounge

At 135 Bar & Lounge in Bethnal Green, luxury meets creativity in a space that feels both intimate and exclusive. Transforming from a traditional pub into a stunning cocktail bar, this venue is inspired by the sleek and stylish speakeasies of the 1930s. With its plush seating, dim lighting, and Art Deco details, 135 sets the stage for a sophisticated night out.

Treat yourself to expertly crafted cocktails, sip on premium wines, and enjoy gourmet small plates - while live jazz and soul music elevate the experience.

Disrepute

Looking to impress on your first date? Disrepute, with its mix of history, mystery, and modern charm, offers the perfect backdrop for a memorable evening.

Hidden in the heart of Soho, this basement bar is steeped in scandal and elegance, offering an intimate, sophisticated setting for you and your date to explore. With cocktails that tell a story, you can bond over shared tales from Soho's storied past, creating a conversation that's as intriguing as your connection.

The Murdér Express Part Deux -Jewel Of The Empire

@ Pedley Street Station on Various dates from Friday 30th January 2026

Looking for fun date ideas in London? Break the ice with an experience like no other at Pedley Street Station. Head along to The Murdér Express, the immersive dining adventure where you'll solve the mystery and enjoy a three-course menu in your train carriage.

Pedro's Wine Bar

Wine Tasting and 2 other offers

Looking for a cosy, intimate spot for a first date? Pedro's Wine Bar, tucked beneath a railway arch on Bermondsey's Beer Mile, offers the perfect backdrop. With its warm lighting, exposed brickwork, and stylish granite bar, this Portuguese wine bar creates a relaxed yet romantic vibe.

Share a bottle of hand-picked Vinho Verde or Douro red and enjoy small plates like salt cod fritters, making your date night both memorable and delicious.

Fairgame Canary Wharf

Late to the Party? We’ve Got You - complimentary cocktail reception

A very active London date idea, Fairgame Canary Wharf or St Paul's will certainly keep you and your date entertained with its innovative twist on fairground games, such as Roll-A-Ball Derby and Skeeball. Their app logs your scores and tracks leaderboards, so your competitive side is bound to come out on this first date. 

Expect lots of colourful decor, adding to the nostalgic vibe of this adults-only playground. And when all the excitement makes you peckish? Nab street food from Rudy's Pizza, Burger & Beyond or Taco Collective, paired with unique cocktails from the bar.

Seven Dials Market London

If you're looking for a laid-back destination to take your date, Seven Dials Market in Covent Garden is a great choice. Seven days a week, these guys are offering up independent street food and drinks in a buzzing space - divided into four main sections and featuring a stage that's often used for entertainment.

Expect trendy warehouse vibes and a diverse selection of vendors. From tasty bao at Yum Bun to Hot Rocket's Cuban sandwiches or Taiwanese pancakes from Wheelcake Island, there's something for everyone - with delicious cocktails to wash it all down.

Steak & Lobster - Various Sites

So you're into the finer things in life? Show your date what you're about with a trip to one of Steak & Lobster's beautiful London venues. Treat them to a taste of luxury with classic cocktails ready for sipping, and a plate of juicy lobster and meaty steak.

Humble Grape Bars

Humble Grape's charming hangouts sprinkled all over London are sure to make your sweetheart swoon. Head down into multi-level, industrial-inspired haunts and snuggle up on a pew together. Spend your evening chatting, laughing and flirting as you sip on some premium vino in these charismatic caverns.

Wildflowers Restaurant

If you want to impress your date, then take them to Wildflowers restaurant in Belgravia, found inside a former timber yard. This classy eatery flaunts a huge open kitchen where the chefs are whipping up seasonal Mediterranean fare cooked over coal, or why not take them upstairs to their wine bar instead? As for the menu, think harissa lamb tartare, slow-roasted duck with grilled cherries, Cornish turbot and more - paired with an Amalfi spritz.

Amazing Grace London Bridge

Happy Hour Tues - Fri 4pm - 7pm

Looking to impress that someone special? We know just the place. A Borough watering hole with oodles of personality, Amazing Grace simply screams date night vibes. Head along and get to know each other over delicious pan-Asian food like Japanese fried chicken or tofu and charred broccoli bao buns, alongside top-quality cocktails and craft beer.

This former church maintains its stained glassed windows and original woodwork, but now you'll find amazing audio-visual technology and 3D light projections as well - perfect for the regular lineup of live music on offer. Not in the area? Head to their Canary Wharf location instead.

The Cocktail Club - Various Sites

There's an unmistakable party spirit to The Cocktail Club's venues, which comes out to play no matter what time of the week you're visiting; perfect for impressing a date that doesn't take themselves too seriously. Better yet, the drinks are spot on too.

London Bridge Rooftop

If you want to impress your date while still going somewhere relaxed, then London Bridge Rooftop strikes the perfect balanced. This is a chilled venue with lots of outdoor space, boasting views of The Shard, the London Eye, St Paul's Cathedral and more.

They offer a selection of affordable cocktails, with a happy hour running from 1 to 4pm between Monday and Wednesday. There are also juicy burgers and sides available if you're hungry, with an interactive dartboard for some added competition.

64 Old Compton Street

Looking for an intimate Italian restaurant to sweep your date off their feet? Then check out 64 Old Compton Street, situated in the heart of Soho. This stylish space is decked out in plush seating and deep blue decor, as well as traditional wooden furniture.

Wondering what's on the menu? Think spinach and ricotta ravioli, prosciutto and mushroom pizzas or chicken Milanese, washed down with fine wines or cocktails.

Il Maremmano

For a laidback first date in traditional Italian-inspired surrounds, Il Maremmano is an apericena bar which serves delicious Tuscan wines from an independent producer and delicacies from the beautiful Maremma region. Their dishes range from cheese or meat boards to mini pizzette topped with fresh buffalo mozzarella, and there's a cracking cocktail selection here too which includes refreshing spritzes and signature serves.

Bar Kinky

Make your way to Fitzrovia to discover Bar Kinky, hidden underneath Kinkally. This sleek spot is filled with stainless steel decor, featuring warm orange lighting and a chef's-table-style bar where you can watch the mixologists work.

These guys are known for their quirky cocktails, so you'll have plenty to talk about. There are some truly unique ingredients in their list, from goat's cheese top roasted leeks.

MUSE at RSA House

Looking for a perfect first date bar in London? MUSE delivers ambience, conversation-starting cocktails, and a warm, inviting atmosphere.

Just steps from Covent Garden, this hidden bar blends old-world charm with contemporary mixology, offering sustainable, seasonal drinks crafted with care. Its intimate size and calm elegance make it a relaxed but impressive setting for getting to know someone new.

Boom Battle Bar Aldgate East

Sometimes it's good to inject a little adrenaline into a first date that goes beyond the nerves you get pre-meet-up. Take your beau axe throwing at Boom Battle Bar Aldgate East as a fun ice breaker, then try your hand at crazier golf to cool down. Fancy a game of shuffleboard? This atmospheric venue has got you covered. You can even stop for a bite to eat after and munch on an array of goodies such as juicy chicken burgers and loaded fries. The cocktails are not to be missed either, with signature concoctions such as the Boom Punch, made with passion fruit syrup, and a spiced mango margarita.