Sex-Positive Events In London

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By Talia Gilliham • Food, Drinks & Events Writer, DesignMyNight Talia has over 8 years of experience writing across hospitality and travel, including bylines in TimeOut. Last updated on 11th October 2026

From eye-opening talks on self-pleasure through to play for partners, London is chock full of sex classes, burlesque parties and body-positive events. That's why we've rounded up London's best sex-positive events right here, so you can find all the best ones.

And it's not the seedy Soho-style of the sixties; the city's choice of raunchy goings-on are safe spaces to explore queer identity, discover what excites you, and mix it up in the bedroom, whether you're flying solo or in a relationship.

Best Sex Events In London: Shows, Classes And More




The Rosemary Branch Theatre

The Rosemary Branch Theatre is a bit of an Islington icon, thanks to its epic and unique roster of shows. It's also championing a load of sex-positive events, including cabaret performances from the likes of Lillith DeVine, who promises a gender-bending, lip-syncing bonanza.

Neon Naked Life Drawing

Ready for a sex-positive affair in the city? This neon-themed series of events is shaking things up with UV lights, pastel colours, reactive paints and a new sense of creativity at some of the quirkiest venues in London; from Shoreditch to Battersea.

Brushstrokes and Nudes - UK's Original Nude Sip N Paint

Whether it's for a birthday, hen night or just because, Brushstrokes and Nudes is the UK's original nude sip and paint experience. This cheeky event features a lineup of naked male models for you to paint a picture of, with plenty of games and sexy surprises along the way.

Your £40 ticket includes all the materials you'll need, with packages available for special occasions. There'll also be a DJ spinning all the best hip hop and RnB tunes, as well as a host to keep the good vibes going.

The Sublime Society

London's most exclusive erotic gathering, The Sublime Society offers a night of lush intimacy, intrigue, and elegant rebellion. They host voyeuristic events that are all about observation, as well as interactive classes on intimacy and BDSM.

Taking place at Dear Darling in St James's, this beautifully curated evening offers an artistic playground of curated cocktails, sultry surprises, and immersive performances. It's part secret club, part sensual dreamscape - and a rare invitation to indulge in the unexpected.

The Lust Supper : A Night Devoted to Desire - After Dark special edition

@ Secret Loft East London on Thursday 3rd and Friday 4th December 2026

The Lust Supper offers a focused, sensory alternative for couples in a private East London loft. Strictly capped at seven couples per night across the 3rd and 4th of December 2026, this two and a half hour immersive evening centres on connection and interactive exploration.

Hosted by intimacy coach Mari Mirenda, the night pairs bottomless bubbles and secret aphrodisiac-inspired tasting menus with guided massage, couples' games, and film projections. With a bold, lingerie- or lace-focused dress code channelled through an Eyes Wide Shut lens, it provides a curated space designed strictly for being present. 

Cheeky Events

From life drawing to cocktail-making, naked butlers and stripper hire, Cheeky Events can make your party a sex-positive one. These packages are sure to make any hen, stag or other bash a night to remember.

Frequently Asked Questions

What is a sex-positive event?

Sex-positive events are typically spaces that encourage open, respectful attitudes towards sexuality, relationships, self-expression, and consent. Events can range from workshops and talks to club nights, performances, and immersive social experiences.

Are sex-positive events open to everyone?

Many events welcome people of all genders, sexual orientations, relationship styles, and experience levels, provided they adhere to the event's rules and values around respect and consent. However, some are specifically designed for couples or singles exclusively.

Do I need to buy tickets in advance?

Yes, advance booking is often recommended as many events have limited capacity and may sell out.

How do consent rules work at sex-positive events?

Consent is typically a core principle. Attendees are expected to ask before engaging with others, respect refusals, and follow the organiser's code of conduct.

What are the best sex-positive events in London for beginners?

Beginner-friendly options often include educational workshops, discussion groups, queer socials, and community-led events that focus on learning and connection rather than nightlife.