You and me baby ain't nothin' but mammals... From eye-opening talks on self-pleasure through to play for partners, London is chock full of sex classes, parties and body-positive events. And it's not the seedy Soho-style of the sixties; the city's choice of rauncy goings-on are safe spaces to explore queer identity, discover what excites you, and mix it up in the bedroom, whether you're flying solo or in a relationship. Forget 50 Shades, we've rounded up London's best sex-positive events right here.
Last updated on 17th May 2023
Get in touch with your sensual side by learning the art of burlesque This virtual masterclass with teach you all the basic dance techniques, with the option to craft your very own rhinestone pasties too.
Ready for a sex-positive affair in the city? This neon-themed series of events is shaking things up with UV lights, pastel colours, reactive paints and a new sense of creativity at some of the quirkiest venues in London; from Shoreditch to King's Cross.
Sultry? Yup. Secret? You bet. Make your way to The Lust Supper at a hush-hush London location for an evening filled with intimate antics. Expect to delve into a mouthwatering 3-course meal alongside free-flowing drinks, followed by multi-sensory workshops or massages.
@ Toulouse Lautrec Jazz Club on Saturday 3rd June 2023 and 4 other dates
Looking for sex-positive events? Taking place at Toulouse Lautrec Jazz Club, Dr. Sketchy's Burlesque and Cabaret life drawing class is a sexy affair hosted by Evil Headmaster. Create your own masterpiece as you draw some models and burlesque beauties.
Forbiddendog is renowned for its kinky entertainment and unique experiences, which extends all the way to its fabulous life drawing classes, with Misstress BlueberryStar as your saucy muse. She'll be posing sensual, naughty poses for you to sketch down in chalk.
Searching for sex-positive shenanigans across the capital? Then you best check out The Chocolate Men. Boasting brunches that are filled with tipples and torsos, alongside surprise shows from the talented squad, there's plenty to get involved with at these events.
@ Naked Soho on Sunday 4th June 2023
If you're after a sex-positive event in London, then make your way to Naked Soho for the Sexy Sundays Bottomless Brunch. Step inside this fabulous hub, where you'll get to enjoy torso-fuelled antics from performers, alongside a two-course feast and unlimited mimosas.
@ Secret Cottage London on Friday 30th June 2023 and 4 other dates
For a flirty multi-sensory activity in London, check out this multi-sensory dining experience, featuring an aphrodisiac menu and 90 minutes of free-flowing booze. In addition, you'll get stuck into couples bonding activities, massages and a free overnight stay.
One of the most sex-positive events near Old Street, The Liquid Love Experience is a sex-positive event for both couples and singles alike. You'll get to use warm olive oil as you'll be invited to explore your sexuality, body and human connection at your own comfort.
@ Toulouse Lautrec Jazz Club on Monday 5th and Monday 19th June 2023
Toulouse Lautrec Jazz Club is hosting a life drawing class with the East London Strippers Collective. The network of feminist and feisty women brings in nude models that are dancers, strip-tease artists and more to champion meaningful employment within the sex industry.
Branded as the sexiest sip and paint party in London, Brushstrokes and Nudes' saucy events will see you taking to canvas to recreate the human form. The creative workshop has a BYOB policy, and regularly host some of the hottest male models around.
The Rosemary Branch Theatre is a bit of an Islington icon, thanks to its epic and unique roster of shows. It's also championing a load of sex-positive events, including cabaret performances from the likes of Lillith DeVine, who promises a gender-bending, lip-syncing bonanza.
Gin House Burlesque are taking over private members club The King's Head for a series of thrilling live shows this spring. Expect an evening of world-class burlesque, circus skills, music and vaudeville delights.
If you're looking for a safe, friendly and familiar space to learn a bit more about your body, The Book Club is the one for you. The Shoreditch bar is known for their eclectic mix of events, including classes on anal, self-pleasure and Feminist porn.
From life drawing to cocktail-making, naked butlers and stripper hire, Cheeky Events can make your party a sex-positive one. These packages are sure to make any hen, stag or other bash a night to remember.
