This Couples & Singles Dinner & Decadence event is designed for the discerning couple and a few single guests to enjoy an evening of good food, specialist wine, like-minded company and an afterparty where intimacy, sensual massage and erotic exploration are encouraged but not expected. This is a very popular party and almost always fully booked.
Particularly designed to be exclusive yet friendly and no ostentatious, it is personally hosted by Colin and his partner Clare with the help of a naked butler and guest masseurs. Guest numbers are limited to around 30 as we only accept a maximum of ten mixed gender or same gender couples and ten singles ( five female & five male ).
During the evening (usually a Friday or Saturday) guests are asked to come dressed elegantly to meet and chat with other like-minded company over a sumptuous 3-course dinner. After dinner, guests are ushered on to a private house party where they are invited to explore intimacy and erotic touch to the erotic level most comfortable to each individual. For those who want to only observe can remain in a snug area and chat and watch as the activity goes on around them.
D & D is not designed to be a swinger's event but more an occasion where guests can keep the intimacy between themselves or enjoy the company of other couples and singles. By bringing in sensual massage ( 5 massage beds at the ready ) guests can tease and tantalise one another and this can be the prelude to more erotic group intimate play.
To attend any D & D party, you do not need to have any experience in giving a massage but simply a love of giving or receiving intimate pleasure.
This is an event open to all sexualities, and the term couple means you attend with a member of the opposite or same gender that you are happy to explore with – this could be a life partner, a friend with benefits or anything in between.
The ticket prices include champagne on arrival, 3-course dinner with paired wines with each course, and after dinner sexy social including sensual massage exploration with prosecco and soft drinks included.
Before anyone can buy a ticket to any party, they must complete the D & D application form.
In certain circumstances, the organisers may reject an applicant
CLICK HERE TO COMPLETE THE PARTY APPLICATION FORM
“It was a fun evening. Everyone was welcoming. The restaurant was beautiful, and food was amazing. The hosts organised a great event. It was exceptional. Highly recommended.” 5 star
"A totally enlightening experience a first-time event for us so we were a little nervous but the evening was fantastic and the first thing we did the next day ( well almost the first ) went out and buy some quality massage oil we’re now looking at getting a massage table!! Colin Clare and the staff were great and put us at ease." 5 star
Check out other reviews given by past attendees of the Dinner & Decadence evenings – Click here
Why Colin & Clare host these D & D events
In the 17 years that Colin has worked as a Sex & Relationship Engineer and Sexologist/Masseur, as part of his job he and Clare attended quite a few adult events. On seeing for themselves and listening to others they came up with the D & D formula to bring in personal hosting and attention to detail.
First and foremost an adult party should be a Successful Party so that if a guest chooses not to get intimate they still leave having had a very enjoyable time. At every D & D party Colin & Clare strive to give guests the best time possible in an environment where those newly exploring and experienced adult partygoers can feel welcome and enjoy themselves without pressure or judgement.
The Dinner
The evening begins with a welcome champagne reception at the curiously named 28°- 50° restaurant one of the Kings Road's newest celebrated posh eateries that has recently been featured on the TV show Made In Chelsea.
Guests arrive between 7.30pm to 7.45pm where they are greeted by the hosts Colin & Clare, who will introduce you to other guests. With the help of a light-hearted icebreaker conversation game, everyone soon relaxes and makes acquaintance with other guests. At 8pm guests are ushered into a private dining room to enjoy a sumptuous three-course dinner with coffee, each course paired with a house recommended wine. To ensure you get to meet as many others guests as possible after every course you will move to another table. ( couples remain together ).
After dinner guests are invited to walk (or taxi) to the nearby Intimacy Matters residence, a charming bijou Georgian Townhouse about 500m away along the Kings Rd towards Sloane Square. where the evening continues and where we hope layers will loosen as temperatures rise to boiling point!
Once at the Intimacy Matters residency, guests can choose to sit and relax and continue to chat in the comfortable living room area. For the voyeurs, there is a short no holds barred, sensual massage demonstration taking place to watch. For guests who are eager to put their erotic massage skills to work, there is the first-floor Group Massage Room where three massage beds are available. Dim lights, music and plenty of hot oil soon makes this room a must-visit place, even if just to watch.
For guests who prefer a bit of privacy there is a massage bed in the Conservatory and another within the Peep Hole Annex. For those guests who want to take things further with their partner or with others, there is a Play Room with a super king play bed. For convenience, there are also two bathrooms both with showers and three lavatories. All necessary accessories are provided.
Generally, once guests have arrived at the house party venue they change into a robe (provided) or bring with them attire that they prefer to wear. Nudity is also quite welcome!
Date - Friday 21st October
Dress for the Dinner - Smart sexy attire
Dress for the Decadence - As little as you wish ( robes provided )
Nearest Tube - Sloane Square
Arrival - at 28°- 50° Chelsea – 7.30pm
Depart to the Intimacy Matters Residence - From 10.30pm
Evening finishes - 3am (if you stay on after 2am remaining guests are encouraged to be fully naturist)
Once you have booked your ticket the programme for the event will be sent to you a couple of days before, together with a guest list introducing you to one another. At this point, you will also be invited to join a PRE PARTY CHAT ROOM on Telegram so you can introduce yourself to other guests before meeting them at the Restaurant. If you require a more discreet way to pay for your ticket, then email Colin back, and I can send you details to send payment by bank transfer or pay by cash into the bank.
Special diets
Anyone who has an allergy or a special site should let Colin know, and he will give details of who at the restaurant can be spoken to make sure you have what you like in the evening.
Dinner & Decadence
3-Courses with a glass of wine paired with each course Champagne on arrival
To Share
Olives & Smoked Almonds to nibble-
Charcuterie Selection
Padron Peppers Boneless Chicken Wings
Yakitori
Garden Sharing Platter (V) Hummus, Truffle Arancini & Artichoke Tempura
Wine Pairing : Albarino, Tambora, Nina Costera, Spain To Follow
Corn-fed Chicken Breast
Heritage carrots, golden beetroot & truffle jus
Hake
Leek fondue, shellfish & saffron creme
Wild Mushroom Risotto (Ve) Chesnuts, leek & shallots
Wine Pairing : Montepulciano D’Abruzzo, Monte Tessa, Italy To Finish
French Vanilla Rice Pudding
Pistachio & caramel
Lemon Posset
Blood orange & sable biscuit Wine Pairing: Moscato
(V) Vegetarian. (Ve) Vegan. If you have an allergy to any food product or dietary requirement, please advise us prior to ordering. Allergen information is available upon request.
This is a mixed-gender event and is open to all sexualities. This is a safe space for you to have a fabulous fun flirtatious frisky, sexually fulfilling evening, where there are no expectations or pressure to engage in any activity that you are uncomfortable with.
This may mean you take this opportunity to chat and enjoy the company of like-minded people. It may be that you would like to strip off and give and receive a sensual massage with your partner or if you feel a wider chemistry, you may like to explore erotic touch with others. As long as its fully consensual, what you choose to do and how far you go is up to you. We hope that everyone has a great time but please remember that we all have desires and boundaries that may be different so before making any approach to anyone, check they are open to play and how they like to play.
We recommend you make clear your sexual orientation ie straight, bisexual, heteroflexible or open to exploring same-gender touch and whether you are comfortable being touched intimately by someone. No means no! Anyone not adhering to this will be asked to leave.
We believe that attraction goes far further than just looks and body type and that having a relaxing dinner with stimulating conversation before any intimate activity lets all ages mix and feel potential chemistry. Experience and wisdom can be as sexy as toned biceps, pert breasts and a tight bum. The ideal event will have a cross-section of ages and physiques.
The ideal event will have a cross-section of ages, so we allocate places according to these approximate age brackets.
21 to 30 - 15%
31 to 40 - 30%
41 to 50 - 30%
50 to 60 - 10%
60 to 65 - 15%
We hope that everyone has a great time but please remember that we all have desires and boundaries that may be different, so before making any approach to anyone, check they are open to play and how they like to play.
How to attend a Dinner & Decadence event
This applies to all events whether you have attended one before out not.
Or if you just want to be kept informed about future Dinner & Decadence events, you can Register Here
There is no vetting of attendees but we will always balance male and female numbers and a good spread of ages if appropriate.
However, since these events are proving to be very popular we may limit the places given to regulars so that new comers can also enjoy the events and we do reserve the right to refuse applications without giving reason.
After purchasing your ticket up to 48 hours before the event - If you wish to cancel or transfer your booking, an admin fee of £50 is charged.
Within 48 hours – Because the restaurant has been paid, if you cancel within 48 hours of the event date, there is NO REFUND OR TRANSFER TO OTHER EVENTS.
No show at the event – If you are a no-show, then there is NO REFUND OR TRANSFER TO OTHER EVENTS
If you cancel before 48 hours of the event you have booked, your ticket can also be transferred to another D & D event to be held in the future. However, if you cancel for a second time, the full fee is retained, and no refund is given.
To ask a question email Colin at colin@intimacymatters.co.uk
| Ticket | Event time | Cost |
|---|---|---|
|
D&D Couples & Singles Event 28 January 2023 - Couples Ticket
Couples ticket = price is for 2 persons attending 28 Jan 202 event including dinner and after party |
19:30 - 03:00 | £275.00 |
|
D&D Couples & Singles Event 28 January 2023 - Female Ticket
Single female ticket attending 28 Jan 2023 event including dinner and after party |
19:30 - 03:00 | £150.00 |
|
D & D Couples & Singles Event 28 January 2023- Male Ticket
Single male ticket attending 28 Jan 2023 event including dinner and after party |
19:30 - 03:00 | £150.00 |
Address
Intimacy Matters Chelsea, Tryon Street, London, SW33LH
Nearest Station
Sloane Square (Tube)
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7. CANCELLATION TERMS
Up to 24 hours before - If you wish to cancel the booking and written notice is given up to 24 hours before the event date then your payment will be fully refunded or transferred to a future event.
Within 24 hours - Because the restaurant has been paid if you cancel within 24 hours and of the event date then there is NO REFUND OR TRANSFER TO OTHER EVENTS
No show at event - If you are a no show then there is NO REFUND OR TRANSFER TO OTHER EVENTS
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