Killing Kittens Workshop: Massage My Man

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Killing Kittens presents 

Massage My Man

Sensual Massage Workshop for women who like men

 Run by Sex & Relationship Engineer Colin Richards of Intimacy Matters

If you have any questions prior to booking please do not hesitate to email

Click here to read 4 women's reasons for going to see Colin Richards of Intimacy Matters and their wonderful experience.


A Unique sensual massage workshop for women who want to increase their confidence and abilities in giving sensual and erotic pleasure to men. 

For those who might like to give sensual massage professionally The Foundation & Intermediate group workshops can be followed with further training by taking the Private Advanced Workshop workshop with Colin. 

This unique training will:

•    Extend the duration your lovemaking by learning the art of giving a sensual massage.

•    Give you an alternative to the fully committed sexual encounter

•    Understand and enjoy how your pleasure in giving gives him pleasure also.

•    Become skilled in fabulous foreplay and arousal techniques that put you in charge.

•    Tease the secret places within his mind and on his body that will send him wild.


Location – Intimacy Matters Treatment Rooms – Bermondsey SE1 4QS

You practice on KK approved male volunteers, working in pairs to one male volunteer per couple. Past massage experience is not necessary, but you do need to have a desire to give sensual touch. The maximum number of students is 12 with 6 male volunteers. 

Foundation Workshop Dates and Times:

Tuesday 12th November - 7pm to 10pm

Intermediate Workshop Dates and Times: 

Tuesday 19th November - 7pm to 10pm



Foundation Workshop - 3 hours

This 3-hour group workshop is the starting point and can be taken on its own or as step one to move on to the 3-hour Intermediate group workshop and followed by the 5-hour Private Advanced Workshop.


Starting with a 30-minute discussion on male sexuality students then work in pairs as Colin teaches you how to give a professional sensual massage to a man.

The workshop is divided into two parts:

Part 1 - 75 minutes

Learning a full body sensual massage routine

Working in pairs and rotating from receiver to receiver you are taught, step by step, a sensual massage routine. From head to toe covering both sides of the naked body, this practice session teaches you both therapeutic and sensual strokes on which to build erotic sensual touch and erotic stimulation.


15 minute break


Part 2 - 45 minutes

Incorporating erotic arousal techniques

In this second part, the routine is repeated but include the following erotic methods.


•    Subtle arousing touch with your body to bring on his arousal

•    Managing keeping him on the edge

•    Chest and nipple stimulation

•    Genital massage

•    Positioning and edging him to near orgasm


Partial nudity (topless) is optional in this practice


The workshop finishes with 15 minutes of feedback from the male volunteer on your style and technique.






Intermediate Workshop - 3 hours

To take part in this workshop, you MUST have completed the Massage My Man Foundation Workshop

The  Intermediate Massage My Man Workshop takes your practical skills, in giving erotic arousal, to another level and provides a deeper insight into the male sexual process.

With further practice of giving the sensual massage that you learned in the Foundation workshop, in the Intermediate workshop you will be taught additional erotic techniques to include in your lovemaking repertoire. These techniques will give your man sensations he has probably not experienced before


Starting with a 30-minute discussion on how men like to be brought to orgasm and what dynamic they want to feel when receiving an erotic massage.


Part 1, 75 minutes

Mastering Erotic Stimulation

Colin gives detailed instruction on the following techniques. Students follow with Colin's guidance on their volunteer receivers.


•    Body to body massage

•    Managing reciprocal arousal

•    External anal stimulation  

•    Prostate massage (optional)

•    Penis and scrotum massage

•    Assorted positioning to take him to orgasm


Part 2 – 45 minutes – with a 5-minute break

Bringing it All Together

This final practice massage session is given in an authentic way as possible. Students continue to work in pairs giving their ‘male receiver a full body sensual massage combining all the techniques learned. Lights dimmed, soft music playing, warm oil and the task in hand is to work together to take your man on a journey of sensual intimacy and erotic pleasure. Partial or full nudity is optional in this practice

We finish with feedback from the male receivers on their experience. 

Once you have booked, you will be sent an email requesting to fill out a short questionnaire which will help us ensure you get what you want out of the workshop. Please note you will also be required to bring along photo ID and acknowledge and agree to terms of disclaimer which will be sent to you 2-3 days before the workshop. Along with the agenda and FAQs.




Ticket Event time Cost
Girls Intermediate 19th November

Massage My Man

18:45 - 22:00 £125.00



Intimacy Matters Treatment Rooms, London

Nearest Station

London Bridge (Tube)

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Killing Kittens
About Killing Kittens Education: Killing Kittens has a range of educational events with topics varying from female biology and orgasms to bondage, mindfulness, meditation and massage. They’ve joined forces with educators and free-thinkers to educate open-minded people about the world of sex, hedonism and exploration. Specialists relative to each subject lead the evening with a combination of talks, presentations and exercises which generally lead to further exploration through open discussion. Discover a wonderful world of social events, live burlesque shows and entertainment at our Killing Kittens Socials. Realise the art of pleasure at our Workkshops and learn how to supercharge your intimate relationships and explode your erotic landscape. Finally, hear talks and panel discussions from top leaders and experts in the world of sex, relationships and dating to educate and empower. Our different events include: Panel Talks - open to both women and men, a panel of several professionals are dedicated to teaching you all something new and providing their insight and expert advice. Workkshops - our hands-on, interactive events to teach new skills and practices. Killing Kittens Socials - our social nights at venues around London designed for you to meet new people and have a fabulous Kurious night.

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