Dinner & Decadence Couples & Singles - An Exclusive Sensual Sexy Event - MIxed Gender

DINNER & DECADENCE COUPLES & SINGLES Party

AN ADULT LIFESTYLE EVENT 

SATURDAY 1st July 2023

7.30 PM TO 3 AM

This Couples & Singles Dinner & Decadence event is designed for the discerning couple and a few single guests to enjoy an evening of good food, specialist wine, like-minded company and an afterparty where intimacy, sensual massage and erotic exploration are encouraged but not expected. This is a very popular party and almost always fully booked. The demographic of the guests attending the party are AB and C1 and aged from the late 20s to early 60’s, most in their ’30’s 40’s, 50’s

Particularly designed to be exclusive yet friendly and no ostentatious, it is personally hosted by Colin and his partner Clare with the help of a naked butler and guest masseurs.  Guest numbers are limited to around 30 as we only accept a maximum of ten mixed gender or same gender couples and ten singles five female & five male .

During the evening usually a Friday or Saturday, guests are asked to come dressed elegantly to meet and chat with other like-minded company. The evening begins with a champagne reception then guests sit on shared tables of 6 - 8 to enjoy a sumptuous 3-course dinner.  After dinner, guests are ushered on to a private house party where they are invited to explore intimacy and erotic touch to the erotic level most comfortable to each individual. Those who only want to observe can remain in a snug area, chat, and watch as the activity continues.

D & D is not designed to be a swinger's event but more an occasion where guests can keep the intimacy between themselves or enjoy the company of other couples and singles. By having available sensual massage 5 massage beds at the ready , guests can tease and tantalise one another, which can be the prelude to more erotic group intimate play. 

To attend any D & D party, you do not need to have experience in giving a massage but simply a love of giving or receiving intimate pleasure.

This is an event open to all sexualities, and the term couple means you attend with a member of the opposite or same gender that you are happy to explore with – this could be a life partner, a friend with benefits or anything in between.

TICKETS 

The ticket prices include champagne on arrival, a 3-course dinner with paired wines with each course, and after dinner, sexy social including sensual massage exploration with prosecco and soft drinks included.

APPLICATION TO ATTEND THIS PARTY

Before anyone can buy a ticket to any party, they must complete the D & D application form. 

In certain circumstances, the organisers may reject an applicant

CLICK HERE TO COMPLETE THE PARTY APPLICATION FORM 

REVIEWS

“It was a fun evening. Everyone was welcoming. The restaurant was beautiful, and food was amazing. The hosts organised a great event. It was exceptional. Highly recommended.” 5 star

"A totally enlightening experience a first-time event for us so we were a little nervous but the evening was fantastic and the first thing we did the next day well almost the first went out and buy some quality massage oil we’re now looking at getting a massage table!! Colin Clare and the staff were great and put us at ease." 5 star

Check out other reviews given by past attendees of the Dinner & Decadence evenings – Click here

THE DETAIL

THE PRINCIPAL,

Why Colin & Clare host these D & D events

In the 17 years that Colin has worked as a Sex & Relationship Engineer and Sexologist/Masseur,  as part of his job, he and Clare attended quite a few adult events. On seeing for themselves and listening to others, they came up with the D & D formula to bring in personal hosting and attention to detail.

First and foremost, an adult party should be a Successful Party so that if guests choose not to get intimate, they still leave having had a very enjoyable time.  At every D & D party, Colin & Clare strive to give guests the best time possible in an environment where those newly exploring and experienced adult partygoers can feel welcome and enjoy themselves without pressure or judgement.

WHAT HAPPENS AT A DINNER & DECADENCE PARTY?

The Dinner

The evening begins with a welcome champagne reception at the curiously named 28°- 50°  restaurant one of the Kings Road's newest celebrated posh eateries that has recently been featured on the TV show Made In Chelsea.

Guests arrive between 7.30pm to 7.45pm and are greeted by the hosts Colin & Clare, who will introduce you to other guests. With the help of a light-hearted icebreaker conversation game, everyone soon relaxes and makes acquaintance with other guests. At 8pm guests are ushered into a private dining room to enjoy a sumptuous three-course dinner with coffee, each course paired with a house-recommended wine. To ensure you meet as many other guests as possible after every course you will move to another table. couples remain together .

THE DECADENCE

After dinner, guests are invited to walk or taxi to the nearby Intimacy Matters residence, a charming bijou Georgian Townhouse about 500m away along the Kings Rd towards Sloane Square. Where the evening continues and where we hope layers will loosen as temperatures rise to boiling point!

Once at the Intimacy Matters residency, guests can choose to sit and relax and continue to chat in the comfortable living room area. For the voyeurs, there is a short no holds barred, sensual massage demonstration to watch.  For guests eager to put their erotic massage skills to work, there is the first-floor Group Massage Room with three massage beds. Dim lights, music and plenty of hot oil soon make this room a must-visit place, even if just to watch.

For guests who prefer privacy, there is a massage bed in the Conservatory and another within the Peep Hole Annex. For those guests who want to take things further with their partner or with others, there is a Play Room with a super king play bed.  For convenience, there are also two bathrooms with showers and three lavatories. All necessary accessories are provided.

Generally, once guests arrive at the house party venue, they change into a robe provided or bring attire they prefer. Nudity is also quite welcome!

FURTHER DETAILS

Date - July 1st 2023

Dress for the Dinner - Smart, sexy attire

Dress for the Decadence - As little as you wish robes provided

Nearest Tube - Sloane Square

Arrival - at 28°- 50° Chelsea – 7.30pm

Depart to the Intimacy Matters Residence - From 10.30 pm

Evening finishes - 3am if you stay on after 2am remaining guests are encouraged to be fully naturist

PROGRAMME & MENU FOR THE EVENING

Once you have booked your ticket, the programme for the event will be sent to you a couple of days before, together with a guest list introducing you to one another. Forty-Eight hours before the party, you will be invited to join a PRE-PARTY CHAT ROOM on Telegram to introduce yourself to other guests before meeting them at the Restaurant. 

Alternative ways to pay

If you require a more discreet way to pay for your ticket, email Colin back, and I can send you details to send payment by bank transfer or cash into the bank.

Special diets

Anyone who has an allergy or a special site should let Colin know, and he will give details of who at the restaurant can be spoken to make sure you have what you like in the evening.

EXAMPLE MENU

ALL WELCOME

This is a mixed-gender event and is open to all sexualities. This is a safe space for you to have a fabulous fun flirtatious frisky, sexually fulfilling evening, where there are no expectations or pressure to engage in any activity that you are uncomfortable with.

CONSENT AT THE AFTER PARTY

This may mean you take this opportunity to chat and enjoy the company of like-minded people. It may be that you would like to strip off and give and receive a sensual massage with your partner or if you feel a wider chemistry, you may like to explore erotic touch with others. As long as it's fully consensual, what you choose to do and how far you go is up to you. We hope that everyone has a great time, but please remember that we all have desires and boundaries that may be different, so before making any approach to anyone, check they are open to play and how they like to play.

We recommend you make clear your sexual orientation ie straight, bisexual, heteroflexible or open to exploring same-gender touch and whether you are comfortable being touched intimately by someone. No means no! Anyone not adhering to this will be asked to leave.

AGE AND BODY TYPE DEMOGRAPHIC

We believe that attraction goes far beyond looks and body type. A relaxing dinner with stimulating conversation before any intimate activity lets all ages mix and feel potential chemistry. Experience and wisdom can be as sexy as toned biceps, pert breasts and a tight bum. The ideal event will have a cross-section of ages and physiques.

The ideal event will have a cross-section of ages, so we allocate places according to these approximate age brackets.

21 to 30 - 15%

31 to 40 - 30%

41 to 50 - 30%

50 to 60 - 10%

60 to 65 - 15%

We hope that everyone has a great time, but please remember that we all have desires and boundaries that may be different, so before making any approach to anyone, check they are open to play and how they like to play.

How to attend a Dinner & Decadence event

APPLICATION

1. To attend any D & D event, you must first complete an APPLICATION FORM

This applies to all events whether you have attended one before out not.

BUYING TICKETS

1. Once your application form is received and provided, we still have the relevant places available you will be sent the link to purchase your ticket online or with a special arrangement by bank transfer. Places are limited to 30 persons with an equal gender balance 
2. Places are NOT confirmed until payment is received
3. Once payment is made you will be sent a receipt and a few days before the event the evening programme and guest list will be made available to you.
4. 48 hours before the event you will also be invited to join a PRE PARTY CHAT ROOM on Telegram to introduce yourself to other guests before meeting them at the Restaurant.

BE KEPT INFORMED

Or if you just want to be kept informed about future Dinner & Decadence events, you can Register Here

NO VETTING OF AGE OR PHYSIQUE BUT SINGLE MALES MUST MEET THE CRITERIA STATED BELOW

There is no vetting of attendees, but we will always balance male and female numbers and a good spread of ages if appropriate.

Purchasing Tickets

Couples 

Couples tickets are quoted as a pair. As a couple, you will be expected to arrive and leave at the event together. You will be sat together throughout the dinner and afterparty and share responsibility for the behaviour of each other. Both must go if one decides to leave or is asked to leave. 

Same Gender/Trans Couples

If you want to attend as a same-gender couple, you must confirm that you are in an intimate sexual relationship on application. As a couple, you will be expected to arrive and leave at the event together. You will be sat together throughout the dinner and afterparty and share responsibility for the behaviour of each other. Both must go if one decides to leave or is asked to leave. 

Single Males 

To ensure that the single males attending a party are respectful and follow the party guidelines and etiquette, the five places for single males are only available to single men who have either undertaken at least the Foundation Massage My Woman or Touch & Turn On group workshop or taken a private class with Colin or who have received a recommendation and personally vouched for from a previous party guests. The name and contact details of the recommender must be given on the application. 

Repeat tickets for single males and females.

We receive many enquiries from single males and females wanting to attend a D & D party. We operate an allocation system to give all applicants a chance to attend. The first party can be booked in advance, but for any subsequent parties in the year, repeat requests are placed on a standby list, and tickets are offered only after new single males or females have had a chance to book. Repeat single males and females are notified of availability within two weeks before the party date and can buy their tickets then. There are no repeat booking terms for couples.

NEW - Cancellation Terms

For all events after March 12th 2023

Cancellation up to 4 weeks: After purchasing your ticket, you can cancel or transfer your ticket to another party date up to four weeks before the event at no charge.

Cancellation within 3 to 1 week: If you want to cancel or transfer your ticket to another date between 3 to 1 week before the event, you will be charged a £50 administration fee.

Serial transfers or cancellations  - In line with the above terms, we will refund or transfer your ticket JUST ONCE. If you make a second booking, transfer your original ticket to another date, and cancel again, there is NO TRANSFER OR REFUND.

Cancellation within one week: If you cancel your ticket within one week of the event, there is NO REFUND OR TRANSFER TO OTHER EVENTS.

No show at the event – If you are a no-show, then there is NO REFUND OR TRANSFER TO OTHER EVENTS